I have been thinking on this same topic, quite a lot. And it occurs to me this morning, that at some point prefect accuracy isn't as important as establishing the tropes is-- for enjoyment's sake, in particular.
What we want to do of course is try to establish tropes that are more accurate than not, less abusive than abusive, and for fuck's sake get rid of the three-inch fingernails!
In that sense, here is a place for sexual education in porn. Knowledge is sexy. One finger, two, three, and in, for instance. Not every guy does it that way, but almost every woman who reads m-slash gets off on it. And as a buttfucker and fuckee myself? I gotta say adding fingers doesn't make the experience suck. Fingering is good!
I would love to follow along and contribute to this project of yours-- it's going to be a series of essays, I think.
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Date: 2011-08-12 05:31 pm (UTC)What we want to do of course is try to establish tropes that are more accurate than not, less abusive than abusive, and for fuck's sake get rid of the three-inch fingernails!
In that sense, here is a place for sexual education in porn. Knowledge is sexy. One finger, two, three, and in, for instance. Not every guy does it that way, but almost every woman who reads m-slash gets off on it. And as a buttfucker and fuckee myself? I gotta say adding fingers doesn't make the experience suck. Fingering is good!
I would love to follow along and contribute to this project of yours-- it's going to be a series of essays, I think.